"All handicapped" things the bride and groom need to know about the engagement

{"id":732215,"name":"\"All handicapped\" things the bride and groom need to know about the engagement","desc":"Although not as important as the wedding, the engagement still has its own role. This ritual is considered a sweet beginning for the marriage of both. So you and him understand what engagement is? You know what you have to prepare on that big day?<\/p>\n","content":"Although the organization time is quite short, the engagement needs to be elaborate with many traditional and important rituals. Each region has different wedding traditions and requirements. The following useful information will definitely help the couple prepare for this ceremony!<\/p>\n\n<h3>What is an engagement ceremony?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\nSay engagement ceremony (also known as the wedding ceremony) is an official announcement of the promise of marriage between the two of them. This is a special step towards the wedding so there are many important rituals and special requirements. Couples should learn and prepare carefully.<\/p>\n\n<h3>Does this ritual look like an engagement ceremony?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\nBoth engagement and engagement ceremonies are a wedding ceremony in Vietnam. This ritual means marking the engaged couple who will become husband and wife in the future.<\/p>\n\nBoth of them were held before the wedding for a while so that the families of both sides could meet, give gifts and money to the wedding. The only difference is that the name is regional. The North is called the engagement ceremony, while the South is called the engagement ceremony.<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-1.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\nFormally, engagement days in the South are organized in an intimate fashion. This is an exchange between two families so it is more like a fun party than a wedding ceremony.<\/p>\n\nThe ceremony has many parts, starting with a guest reception, followed by a simple ceremony, after which the bride&#39;s family will treat the boys&#39; party. Many families consider this to be the wedding party on the side of the girl&#39;s family, so it is very spectacular and funny.<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-2.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\nThe North people respect traditional rituals so most of the engagement ceremony takes place more solemnly and with the participation of relatives and elderly parents.<\/p>\n\n<h3>Engagement need to prepare what gifts?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\nThis is the first thing that requires two families to be seriously equipped. In addition to the traditional traditional gifts of betel nut, betel nut tea, the groom&#39;s family can add a few other offerings such as fruit, jam cake ... to enrich the stage.<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-3.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\nThe most common types of jam cake offered by the groom&#39;s family are spousal cakes, pink cakes, nuggets, green bean cakes, lotus jam ...<\/p>\n\nMoreover, the number of sacrifices should be in accordance with regional customs. While southern families require an even number of 6, 8 or 10 ... gifts, in the North requires an odd number of 5, 7 or 9 caskets.<\/p>\n\n<h3>What should the bride wear in the wedding?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\nApparel issues should be prepared fairly early so they can be easily fixed if something goes wrong. The wedding dress for the bride is usually a traditional ao dai.<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-4.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\nThe colors are very diverse but the bride should choose the basic colors such as red, pink, white, copper ... The groom has a lot more choices when it is possible to wear a traditional long dress or an elegant suit. .<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-5.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\nBesides, you should also pay attention to the costumes for parents of both sides of the bride and groom because they also appear a lot in the engagement ritual.<\/p>\n\n<h3>Indispensable pair of engagement rings<\/strong><\/h3>\n\nOn such a big holiday, it is indispensable to have an engagement ring to prove the love of the bride and groom. From the moment they exchanged rings, they were both family members.<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-6.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\nThe choice to buy the bride and groom&#39;s ring must be prepared in advance, together to discuss and unite to choose a pair of rings that you like. The shape, material of platinum ring, diamond or 18K gold wedding ring is up to both your preferences.<\/p>\n\n<h3>The rituals required during engagement day<\/strong><\/h3>\n\nAccording to traditional Vietnamese wedding rituals, the rituals for the ceremony will take place in the following order:<\/p>\n\n<h4>Rite of greeting and offering of gifts<\/strong><\/h4>\n\nIn order for the engagement to proceed smoothly, the couple should pay attention to the following:<\/p>\n\nAt the girls&#39; house about 50m, the boys reviewed the costumes, fruit trays and the formation. Particularly, the owner of the marriage and grooms carried the tray of betel wine to the bride&#39;s house first to submit to the ceremony.<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-7.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\nAfter accepting, the bride&#39;s family will happily invite the bride&#39;s family to the house to place the fruit trays in front of the family altar. The two families will invite tea, visit each other and then they introduce each other in the family.<\/p>\n\nThe representative of the groom&#39;s family will make a few short statements about the reason for the party and the offerings. The bridegroom representative accepted the offering and thanked her.<\/p>\n\n<h4>The bride launches the two of them<\/strong><\/h4>\n\nWhen the two of them performed the greeting and handing over the tray of fruit, the bride in a long dress sat in the waiting room. When the ceremony is over, the bride&#39;s family will allow the groom to welcome the bride to greet them.<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-8.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\n<h4>The incense burning ceremony of the ancestor&#39;s altar<\/strong><\/h4>\n\nThis is the most important ceremony on the engagement day. First, the bride&#39;s representative will bring some items from the fruit tray of the bridegroom to the altar of the family.<\/p>\n\nAfter that, the guy burned the lamp carefully to let the lamp burn well and the two flames burned evenly. This flame symbolizes life, optimism and above all the present connection with the past, descendants with grandparents and ancestors.<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-9.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\nThe bridegroom will pray to the two of them, after four amnesty in front of the ancestor altar and then put two lamps for the two owners to kiss on both sides of the temple. Finally, the couple will light their ancestors&#39; incense.<\/p>\n\n<h4>Giving jewelry to the bride and wedding money to the bride&#39;s family<\/strong><\/h4>\n\nAfter praying to the ancestors, the bride and the groom wear rings for each other. The bridegroom&#39;s mother also wears the bride&#39;s jewelry.<\/p>\n\nUsually wedding jewelry includes earrings, necklaces and bracelets. If the family is in difficult circumstances, at least some earrings.<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-10.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\nBesides jewelry, the groom&#39;s family also gave the girl&#39;s family some money to show their appreciation for the foster work of the bride&#39;s parents. In addition, the money also expresses the desire to share a part of marriage expenses for the girl&#39;s family.<\/p>\n\nAfter that, the groom&#39;s bride will pour tea and wine to invite both families. The groom&#39;s family also announces a good day for the wedding ceremony so that the two families can reach agreement.<\/p>\n\n<h4>The bride&#39;s house has a fruit for the groom&#39;s house<\/strong><\/h4>\n\nUsually when receiving the fruit of the groom&#39;s family, the bride&#39;s family will take part, the rest will be used to leave the fruit. The kickback took place after the bride&#39;s family invited the groom&#39;s family to a salty party and the groom&#39;s family asked permission to leave.<\/p>\n\n<img alt=\"\" src=\"\/datafiles\/31251\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-11.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n\nWhen dividing an offering, never use a pair of scissors to tear it by hand, the result must be an even number and when returning the tray the lid should be turned upside down.<\/p>\n\nUsually, the engagement takes place from 30 minutes to 1 hour. Although the ceremony is not too complicated, this is considered an indispensable traditional engagement ceremony in Vietnamese weddings. The modern bride and groom still need to follow as well as follow the order above to make the wedding go smoothly.<\/p>\n","image_url":"https:\/\/bichh.id.vn\/datafiles\/86334\/upload\/images\/news\/tt12-1.jpg?t=1753112949","image_thumb_url":"https:\/\/bichh.id.vn\/datafiles\/86334\/upload\/thumb_images\/news\/tt12-1.jpg?t=1753112933","tags":["the engagement"],"count_view":828,"seo_name":"all-handicapped-things-the-bride-and-groom-need-to-know-about-the-engagement","date_update":1768264152,"date_created_format":1768264152,"meta_title":"","meta_desc":"","meta_keyword":"","qr_code":"https:\/\/bichh.id.vn\/all-handicapped-things-the-bride-and-groom-need-to-know-about-the-engagement","title_page":"Tin tức","relate_object_id":732215,"company_logo":"https:\/\/bichh.id.vn\/datafiles\/86334\/upload\/your-logo.png","company_name":"Nguyễn Thị Ngọc Bích","company_email":"23k4090013@hce.edu.vn","company_phone":"","company_address":"","company_fax":"","date_now":1781688754,"company_tags":[],"search_keyword":null,"facebook_comment":"https:\/\/bichh.id.vn\/tat-tan-tat-nhung-dieu-co-dau-chu-re-can-biet-ve-le-dinh-hon","breadscrumb":[{"url":"https:\/\/bichh.id.vn","name":"Trang chủ","icon":"","active":false},{"url":"https:\/\/bichh.id.vn\/tin-tuc","name":"Tin tức","icon":"","active":false},{"url":"https:\/\/bichh.id.vn\/kinh-nghiem-cuoi","name":"Kinh Nghiệm Cưới","icon":"","active":true}],"list_products_tmp":[],"list_section":[{"id":711175,"name":"SECTION-520727","seo_name":"#w30s-section-711175","url":"#w30s-section-711175"},{"id":711176,"name":"SECTION-521444","seo_name":"#w30s-section-711176","url":"#w30s-section-711176"}],"type_page":7,"id_page":504738,"widget_16160175":{"content_data":{"content":" "}},"widget_16160161":{"content_data":{"content":" "}},"widget_16160162":{"content_data":[{"id":122264,"title":"American","code":"us","is_expires":false,"is_active":0},{"id":122263,"title":"Tiếng Việt","code":"vn","is_expires":false,"is_active":1}]},"widget_16160167":{"content_data":{"content":""}},"widget_16160165":{"content_data":[]},"widget_16160168":{"content_data":{"content":"Menu"}},"widget_16160171":{"content_data":{"content":"NGỌC BÍCH"}}}